Date women who like anal sex
But it’s not an uncommon stance lately, particularly after Gillian Flynn’s now-infamous “cool girl” rant from “Gone Girl” that says women who enjoy sex acts that may be perceived as male-appeasing fantasies, such as anal penetration, are faking their interest in order to attract and keep men in a competitive dating environment. I’m a woman who likes anal sex, and I’m going to turn the tables here and say I think it’s weird that you think that’s weird.First of all, the fact that I say I enjoy anal sex should be enough for you to believe me.Urban Dater has since posted a rebuttal piece (hehehe, rebuttal), although whether it’s an apology from the site or infighting among its writers is unclear.Mostly the article apologizes for the sex-negativity that is squicking another’s squee and for the fact that the original piece relied heavily on anecdotal evidence that is contrary to what actual statistics about anal sex have to say.Get an update on • how are ladies from China and the West different?() • the 1 thing you must do for your relationships to go well in China () Most ladies from China are traditional and conservative.
Note: Discover the 3 different types of pretty Chinese women here.But maybe you believe that one in every five women is faking it in order to look cool. “Among women who had vaginal sex in their last encounter, the percentage who said they reached orgasm was 65. Some folks theorize that it is the orgasms (resulting from oral, manual or vaginal sex) that satisfy and relax women enough for them to be open to anal penetration, rather than the anal sex that is causing orgasms. If people are happy and fucking and coming, who are we to tell them they’re not actually enjoying themselves?(*as long as it’s consensual, but come on, do I really have to specify that?Then there are women like me who self-identify as masochists and for whom anal sex is enjoyable precisely because it is an act of suffering.I’m not sure anal sex will ever feel let’s say “soothing” to me in the way that cunnilingus does, but it is the pain, the sacrifice and the extremism of it that turns me on. Don’t judge.) The idea that only men are sexual thrill-seekers while women are tasked with the duty of either fending off or reluctantly indulging their porn-like preferences is just wrong and unfair.