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Holding on to previous romantic attachments creates feelings of distrust and can stymie an otherwise promising relationship.

I figured it’s been 15 years, we’re both grown adults now and yes, part of me wanted him to see just how fabulous I turned out.

The problem is, Michael has also friended my sister, who was an 11-year-old ugly duckling when we dated in high school, but has definitely blossomed since then.

When I tell people about this situation, everyone thinks it’s wrong. They say I shouldn’t have a problem with it since I’ve been happily married for 13 years and that it was over a decade ago when we were teenagers. I understand you’d be hurt that your sister is dating your high school sweetheart, but I find it more difficult to understand how you’d be upset with any female close to you dating any ex of yours, regardless of when you dated him, how serious you were, what the break-up was like, and what your feelings for him are now.

Not every relationship is created equal, and you shouldn’t apply some silly “code” to all of them as if they are.

But when I do get to see her, all I hear about is how much she misses hanging out with me. I even worked with one of them at a previous job for a full month and the last four or five times I’ve seen him he’s introduced himself to me thinking he hasn’t met me before.

She could be “talking” to any of my exes and I would feel the same exact way I’m feeling now.

She has always been a little flaky (being late, not picking up her phone, waiting hours before responding to a text message) but lately it’s gotten a lot worse.

She’ll completely bail on plans and not respond to phone calls/texts for days. She’s been hanging out with these holier-than-thou hipster kids since she started working at this new bar and they’re really rude to me.

” it might be time for you to grow up and let other people live their lives.

My best friend has been my best friend since kindergarten. She started working at one of the cool bars in our college town and I rarely see her.

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